Wedding- Sarah & John

Sarah and John were married just before Christmas in Glasgow, at the City Halls and Old Fruitmarket and I’m still talking about it.  I’d been looking forward to their wedding for ages- our meetings had been a lot of fun, they both really put the effort in with their homework, the ceremony was looking pretty fine and the Fruitmarket is a really cool city centre venue.  AND John’s from Sunderland so his accent is a little lush.  AND Sarah never. Stopped. Smiling.  I’ve looked through all their photos (repeatedly, stalker-like) and Sarah is grinning, all the way through.  It’s lovely to see and it’s just amazing to be part of it all.

Three things we covered in their ceremony:

  1. Tinder
  2. Beetroot makes your pee pink
  3. There’s a relatively new Aldi in Anwick.

Can you tell that this was a fun ceremony to write?  Foiled engagement plans, love at first sight, great guns; we had it all!

We also had a band warming, a handfasting (using some very precious Harris Tweed) and, unusually, a wee jumping of the broom at the end.  Sarah’s mum and John’s son did fab readings: The Union by Robert Fulghum, which Mum read beautifully during the handfast and an excerpt from Cath Crowley’s Graffiti Moon, which was delivered word perfect and to enthusiastic applause,

“If my like for you was a football crowd, you’d be deaf ’cause of the roar.  And if my like for you was a boxer, there’d be a dead guy lying on the floor. And if my like for you was sugar, you’d lose your teeth before you were twenty. And if my like for you was money, let’s just say you’d be spending plenty.”

Back to the jumping of the broom.  I’ve maybe had it half a dozen times but it never fails to get your guests excited, especially in a kilted wedding ‘cos you never know what you might see, mid-leap.  Some say it’s a fertility rite, others reckon it’s more a way of marrying when there’s no one to marry you.  Whatever the reasons, it’s really good fun and a bit different.  You should try it!

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This was also my first wedding with ace photographer, the bold Neil Thomas Douglas, he of the beard.  There were lots of ginger beards there that day:  Neil, The Groom, Me……

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“Dear Claire, We wanted to thank you again for being so wonderful and making our wedding ceremony certainly one to remember!  We had such a wonderful day and a big part of that was down to your care, attention to detail and, of course, humour!  Thank you from the bottom of our hearts, Lots of love, Sarah & John”

Readings: The Union by Robert Fulghum and an excerpt from Graffiti Moon by Cath Crowley

Music: Rhys the Piper

Photographer: Neil Thomas Douglas (cheers for letting me use all your amazing photos and not running away when I started waving a fake beard about!)

Wedding- Ann & Ged

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I’m a great one for thinking out loud.  As we went up to Ann’s room in the Glasgow Hilton Grosvenor before the wedding, I was chatting to Bea (Head of Housekeeping and Eucharistic Minister, no less!) about Humanist weddings and how much I enjoy what I do and I wondered, aloud, if I might ever tire of doing weddings, ever find them boring. At that moment, Ann came to her door, the two of us squealed with excitement, grabbed hands and started jumping up and down like a pair of weans.

‘I don’t think you’ve got anything to worry about,’ said Bea.

Fair enough.

Ann and Ged are the first local couple that I’ve married and it’s been a treat being able to pop in and see them for a coffee and be home in time for The Walking Dead.  Freakin’ love those zombies…..

Ged surprised Ann by proposing in their living room, just at Christmas past.  I think Ann had been waiting all her life to be married to her man so she didn’t hesitate.  Proposal in December, wedding in April?  Eeek! They didn’t leave much time to plan but they were clever- they were offered help by their friends and family and they took it!

Table setting

 

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Ann’s amazing colleagues, girls who she sees as family, decorated the room, tables and made all the favours, name cards and the cake.  They were also super-keen to be part of the ceremony too and, between them, they wrote a heartfelt and funny tribute to Ann and Ged, and sang their hearts out, to the tune of Wonderwall by Oasis.  It was absolutely brilliant and, to a woman, they gave it their all.

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Ann couldn’t wait to be Ged’s wife and call herself Mrs Black but, on the day, she kept him waiting juuuuuuust long enough for him, and his best man, his cousin Derek, to start sweating!

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Ged’s eldest niece, Gemma, read The Lovely Love Story by Edward Monkton, a reading I thoroughly recommend if it’s being read by a child, and she adapted it a little to suit her Auntie Ann and Uncle Ged.  Amy, the younger niece, helped with the handfasting and she did it so well- a wee practice in Ann’s room beforehand helped with the nerves.

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This was my favourite kind of wedding; one where it’s small enough to engage with all the guests, both with a bandwarming and some quality chat (turns out even folk from Greenock can be offended!) It was a fab wedding, exactly how they wanted it- relaxed, personal and fun.

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Congratulations, Mr & Mrs Black!

 

Just though I’d say hello and say thank you for the lovely words you wrote about our wedding on your website, the part about us jumping up and down when i opened the door to you made me smile so much and brought back the sheer happiness of our day. 
We will never forget the ceremony you gave us.

 

Readings: A Lovely Love Story by Edward Monkton and Today is the Day, Author unknown

Music: Processional: First Time Ever I Saw Your Face, Roberta Flack

Signing the Schedule: I Will, The Beatles

Retiral Music: Happy, Pharrell Williams

 

 

Summer 2014

Summer’s over for those of us North of the Border and it seems to have flown by. The last big break before the wean started primary school, we filled our days rather nicely.

There were wigwams and castles, Commonwealth Games and beaches and lots and lots of ice cream.

We hung out with good people, enjoyed sporadic sunshine and loved Glasgow

A little relaxing travel by train, boats and big wheels.

There was our annual Waverley excursion. I can’t tell you how much we love this day out and this year, the sun shone. Fish, chips and ice cream on Arran with my favourite people. Amazing day.

Waverley at Arran

Waverley at Arran

And that’s it, all over for another year……roll on Autumn!